Darling, He is Not Worth It


N.B The use of the words he and him stand for both sexes, not male only. The article would not sound well, if there would be a repetition of he/she or him/her. It would make the blog boring.


You might have loved someone with steadfast love, being so consistent, committed, loyal, faithful, devoted, dedicated and steady for with him. Dear you really love the person, but the cometh a time when you see that, in all your effort and energy of being friendly, nice, sweet and loving towards him, it hurts you in the end while he is braaing meat at beach in Mauritius. No matter how much you try to be good and benevolent to him, he just continues to be a jerk and not willing to return the favour of your kindness. But instead, he just shows he does not care about your graciousness and friendliness unto him, makes it clear via his actions that you do not exist in his life, take your bags and leave.

Let us begin with you who is in a relationship, then come to you who not in a relationship, but you long with all your flesh, blood and bones to be with him. You cannot devalue yourself for someone who is not committed to thee, one that you are a backup or a second option for him. Why should you be so distressed for a person that does not care about your feelings. You love the person, that is understandable, but it’s not worth it. You cry day and night, longing for love from him but what you are given back is shit. Disrespectfulness, emotional abuse and resentment. You sit down, your head consumed with him; thinking wherefore is he and with who? If he does not care, why should you? Get over that person, for he is not worth your time. A true lover shall come to you, do not chase for it especially on an idiot and a fool that is not loving you back.

Now to you who is a pursuer, when it’s not working walk away. You cannot waste your time and energy on someone you see will never love you back. You might have tried to be affectionate, good natured, communicative, hospitable, kindly, approachable, neighbourly, demonstrative and many more deeds you might have done to show how much you love him. That person knows that, but he is being a jerk by not returning even just friendliness, it does not have to be love, but just communicativeness. 

You see the person daily, being so open, sweet and talkative when with other people but you. Even if he has not said it by mouth but his actions speak that: “stay the hell away from me”. You might wonder, whether is he pretending his friendliness. You begin to realise that, he never talks to you but you talk to him, he never walks with you but you walk with him. That person knows you love him, as you might have told him but continues to be an asshole, he doesn’t have to love you back but communicativeness and neighbourliness would make one feel good, if you do not get that in all of your dedication of being kind and friendly unto him, the person is not worth it. Forget about him and move on. It will be hard to forgett someone you truely love, that's undertsdandable. But if  you are not willing, what profit shall you get on love which harms your inner being? Forgett about him, it will be worth it.
    
Darling, He is Not Worth It



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